1. We don't have control over anybody, so never try to take control over someone, it will suffocate the person or break us when we loss the control. 2. Let People Do What They Want Don't influence their decisions, Just tell your knowledge about it, let them take it as suggestion or ignore it. 3. It's more than a lesson, a kind of decision. I'll be defining boundaries & secrets to be kept when there can be consequences of telling it. But when there's no loss being real, I'll be telling what the reality is, wherever it's required.